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Regrets

Every day God walks with us and we see spirit in the reflections of the people we hear and see. Words impact me when they ring so true it is almost as they are sacred.


Daria Kasatkina is a professional tennis player and I listened this morning as she was interviewed. She had played a beautiful match against a very tough opponent. Her interviewer asked how she kept so focused during the match. She said, "No regrest in life!" What a clean way to live. No regrets seems to me to be a Divine quality because getting caught up on what was doesn't done is so ego-based. It also means that your personal focus tends to be what is ahead of you and not what is behind you.


In Neuro-linguistic-programming, there is an exercise during which the client is asked to close their eyes and imagine that the past, the present, and the future were actually around their head. I ran into clients who had the past right in front of their eyes with the future out beyond the past.


Thus all my client could see was the past which took her to chaotic places in her head and shortcomings (in her perception). When I had the client reach up and imagine moving the past to beside her instead of in front of her magic happened. The view ahead was of the future. She had a clearer time instead of seeing nothing but the past of unfulfilled potential. We must keep looking forward and not back into a past already completed.


I also listened while out on errands to Joel Osteen who is an amazing speaker. I love that Joel starts and ends hiis sermon with his church beliefs and all in between is an empowerment-based new thought speech. He said that God's role for us is irrevocable. We will ive out our desitny because we are always on God's path.


So maybe it is time to do some spring cleaning. You've got this far so let's check things out. Write down ten things today that you regret. Be honest and try to connect with the ones that still trigger you. Then list each regret on a page. Look at each regret. Have you given up on it or is it still a part of your self-belief? Take the regret out and you will have two choices. Either let it go or do something about it right now. Do it one sheet as a time. In the end, you will have a new plan of action. Pass it around and start dropping regrets a week at a time. Send me thoughts at how it worked for you at tigger1@surewest.net. Make a new plan of action. Start to drop a regret a day at a time from your list. Send me thoughts on how it worked for you.



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